What are Stud Earrings?

I got my first set of stud earrings at the mall, and it was not a bad experience for me at all. However, I admit that when I got my second and third sets of piercings in my ears, I actually did them myself- it was really popular when I was in high school and middle school to do that. Probably not the smartest idea, but it worked for me- I used a needle and lots of disinfectant. However, I would never recommend anyone doing anything besides the ear lobe themselves. It can get really messy.

My mother didn't let me get my ears pieced until I was 13. While I understand that people let their kids get it done much earlier much of the time, I am glad she waited. It made me really want them and really want to take care of them- the cleaning and other care takes time, and I don't think kids under 10 can take that responsibility themselves. Since then I have had my ears pieced several more times, including the inner ear on my right ear and the cartilage on my left. Since I was able to take care of them that first time, I've always been good about keeping them free of infection since then.

If you have kids who want their ears pierced never take them to the mall and have it done with a piercing gun. While most accessory shops claim to have well-trained staff on hand to get those first stud earrings in, I am pretty much convinced they just let anyone do it.

I took my daughter in to have her ears done but left when a teen about the same age as her came out with a piercing gun in hand, fiddling with the settings or whatnot. It did not instill a lot of confidence in us.

We ended up going to a popular body piercing shop, and they did a great job. They were professional, wore gloves, disinfected everything and used a new needle. A totally different experience from the mall.

I waited for years to get my ears pierced and finally got permission from my parents when I was a teenager only to discover that I was allergic to the metal they used. I ended up having to take my new stud earrings out and wait for my holes to heal back over. I tried again a few years after that and no matter how hypoallergenic the metal claimed to be my body just rejected it.

What eventually worked for me was a pair of glass retainers. You can have custom ones made for you at a decent piercing shop and since glass has absolutely no allergens in it you won't react to it. The glass earrings are more like a skinny post than an earring and hold your hole open while your ears heal.

I finally had a cartilage earring put into the upper part of my ear a few years ago after wanting one for a long time. I can wear stud earring there too, but it's better to get one that's made for that area.

When I was there, I was told that it's actually not the best idea to get your ears done with a piercing gun at the local mall. Often they don't sterilize the equipment properly, and anyway, using a needle is just safer and more precise.

So, yeah. When my kids want to have their ears pierced, I think I'm going to take them to a proper piercing studio and get it done there.

I had my first pair of studs put in when I was about fourteen. My parents wouldn't let me do it until I turned twelve and it wasn't that important to me so I waited until my sister turned twelve and we could do it together.

I remember it didn't hurt as much as I was expecting. We did invest in really nice, hypoallergenic sterling silver stud earrings that were guaranteed for years, because my mother didn't want me to be hurt by cheap metal.

I appreciate that as I found out later that I seem to be somewhat allergic to other kinds of metal earrings. I can't imagine trying to heal my ears and having to deal with an allergic reaction on top of it!

I am so excited! My daughter is turning five this August, and we always try to do something special for our kids on their birthdays. She has decided that she would like to have her ears pierced for her 'big' gift.

I had my ears pierced when I was six, so I think this is a fine age to do so.

We went to the store to look at the earrings so I would have some idea of how much I needed to save to pay for the whole thing, and she chose gorgeous diamond studs! They would be very appropriate for me, but not for a five year old.

We finally decided on a small red pair, although we also wavered on the tiny flowers that were made from different precious stones.

I personally liked those the best, but it’s her ears and her birthday, so she wins.

I was very impressed with her initial selection, though. She is her momma’s daughter through and through!

@snickerish - I bet your friends who have the 'push' presents are your friends who have babies. A 'push' present is the present a husband gives his wife after giving birth (hence the term push).

So far the 'push' presents I have seen have also been quite fancy, which I think is appropriate if they present is for giving birth!

I only wear stud earrings. The dangle earrings often feel too heavy. So far my favorite earrings that I feel go with so many occasions are: pearl stud earrings (if you pay close attention you will see that pearls always stay in style, but the size of the pearl changes within different style trends) and the 1 carat diamond stud earrings my husband gave me.

I received the earrings for our first anniversary, but I have friends that have said there husband gave them diamond earrings as their 'push' present. I had never heard of this before! Does anyone know what a 'push' present is?

I remember when I was a girl getting my ears pierced at the special piercing stand at the mall. My first pair of earrings had to be stud earrings.

I don't know if they still have that as a rule, but I they had the rule then since I was young and they didn't want me to knock the earring out too easy and I think the thickness of the actual post was important. And dangle earrings usually have those hooks that aren't as thick, so I guess they wanted to make a better earring hole with the thicker post.

Anyway, my first stud earrings ever were star stud earrings, I loved them. I know a lot of girls that also chose stud earrings that were the color of their birthstone as their first ever earrings and I think that is a cute idea for little girls.